Fear and Doubt

“Mom, what does the middle of nowhere look like?” my five-year-old asked me the other day. The question made me laugh. I answered, “It depends on the person and where they are.”

 

I thought it was a good metaphor for the feeling s of doubt we all experience from time to time in any worthwhile activity. My “middle of nowhere” is where I am at today. I am on my chosen path and I know where I want to end up. I have a good road map in hand of what I think it takes to be successful. I am marching full steam ahead. 

 

However, every once in awhile that sneaky little devil called “doubt” dances into my head. It happens in those moments when I take my eye off the goal. “Where the heck am I? I’m in the middle of nowhere!” my mind thinks. 

 

Work, work, work with no end in sight and no promise of success. That can be intimidating to a mom with three kids who’s trying really hard to combine passion with income and a flexible schedule. I am a big believer in having it all, but still every once in awhile doubt sneaks in and I feel like I am in “the middle of nowhere”. I realize it is my inner chicken speaking so I let the thought pass right on through and just dive back in Before you know it, the feeling fades. Another milestone is achieved. 

 

You are not alone. It’s okay to be afraid sometimes, and to have doubt. It’s human nature. It’s what you choose to do—or not do—with that fear that ultimately separates the successful from the not so successful. The next time you feel you are in your version of the “middle of nowhere”, take heart and know you are not alone. The moms at www.millionairemom.com understand. We all have doubts from time to time, and we are here to support you!